
A new commandment I give you – love one another as I have loved you…
Most Thursdays I find myself at the coffee morning at Allhallowgate. We are especially busy in coach trip season. The coaches stop behind our hall and they know after a coach trip people need coffee and they need a loo! So most weeks we meet people from all sorts of places. This Thursday we had a group of Roman Catholic folk from Salford in on a pilgrimage. They were having a Ripon stop en route to Holy Island. Two of them asked me to pray with them in church. I shared a prayer then they said “can we say the Our Father?”
I’m always nervous when I don’t have the Lord’s Prayer open in front of me. Years ago, I did three funerals in one day at a crematorium and to keep myself fresh I decided to use the Baptist service book for the third one instead of ours. The Baptist book doesn’t have the Lord’s Prayer written out in full. I stood in front of a large, unchurched gathering and announced it. I started “our father who art in heaven hallowed be thy name... Then my brain went “you don’t know this prayer; you haven’t a clue how it goes!” I stopped; they stopped.
I garbled a few sentences and got to the Amen. It was scary and ever since I always have the prayer in front of me when I lead it in public worship. I had to remember on Thursday that Roman Catholic friends stop at the line “but deliver us from evil.” Amen.
I’d forgotten something I should have easily remembered that brain fog Friday. And friends today I want to suggest that the Church with a capital C has forgotten really what it is here for and what Jesus tells it to do, and what the heart of Jesus message is.
Love one another. And this means love everyone.

I was walking back to Sainsbury’s car park chatting to a member of St Wilfrid’s in Ripon the other day. She asked me “ what do you think of our new Pope?” I rather like him. Here’s some words which have gone round social media which may be his but if they are not, they arewords capturing his agenda I think.
“To all who sent prayers, love, and hope as I begin this sacred journey — thank you.
I accept this role not as a throne, but as a vow:
To serve the forgotten, to uplift the broken, tospeak plainly where others stay silent.
To be called "woke" in a world that sleeps through suffering is no insult — it is Gospel.
Woke means awakened by compassion. Guided by truth. Humbled by grace. Committed to justice — not just for some, but for all.
So let them mock. Let them sneer.
We will still build the Kingdom — not with walls, but with love. Be awake. Be loving. Be woke.
Love one another. Do you really mean that, Jesus? Does that include everyone? Have we forgotten the Arminian nature of the Methodist people? I’m including what I think is Charles Wesley’s greatest hymn about inclusion in my service: O for a trumpet voice, on all the world to call!
To bid their hearts rejoice, in him who died for all; For all my Lord was crucified, for all, for all my Saviour died!
We have forgotten that Methodist theology doesn’t say some, it says all. Love one another. So these past few days the mayor in Ripon has had the flag of the International Day Against Homophobia, Biphobia, and Transphobia flown above Ripon Town Hall. We need a day to remind ourselves not all are included by some. There are other examples where we categorise people. We even do it without thinking making people feel or be described like they are second class. One of my folk said on Thursday about the pilgrims, “ they are Roman Catholic but they are very nice!”
It’s no surprise the Early Church had this inner tussle. Peter has this encounter with Cornelius, a Gentile, and this vision. And he reports back to the leaders of the new Christian community in Jerusalem. And he has to respond to their confusion, and maybe even a sense of betrayal that Peter had violated the group’s norms. He had the gall to cross the line and eat with Gentiles. The higher-ups were likely afraid of losing the meager protection and security that being Jewish provided; it was important for their survival as a distinct people to keep “them” separate from “us.” And Peter could understand their confusion. After all, we know that Peter really wanted to get things right. And before this strange vision of a white sheet being lowered from heaven filled with nearly as many animals as went aboard Noah’s Ark, Peter was his typical self-righteous self – he wouldn’t eat with “them,” the Gentiles, and “they” needed to become like Peter, to follow specific dietary laws, to not work on Saturday, to be circumcised in order to become a follower of Jesus. In fact, it took the sheet being lowered three times, and a voice speaking to him three times, for him to get the message.
But after this experience, Peter realised that mixing Jews and Gentiles wasn’t only permissible – it was actually desired by God! So, he confidently proceeded to explain to headquarters how this came to be. Really, he explained his own new understanding, which opened the door for the conversion of Gentiles.
Can you imagine Jesus in all this? Can’t you imagine Jesus pulling his hair out over this? Thinking, “What? How could they possibly be squabbling over this? I loved eating with all sorts of people!
So maybe in our heads, love one another is radical and maybe we need to be told again everyone has a place in the heart of God which is love.
Jesus loved and loves us as one who serves us and calls us friends. As teacher and master Jesus knelt and served and called his followers friends – a reversal of how things were understood. And so we too are to love – serving, treating as beloved friends, not as the world understands importance but as love beckons.As the Pope says if that’s woke so what?
The heart of the Christian Gospel is that God is love. I
I wonder if you could only have one story Jesus told what it would be? People have said the story that has the Gospel within the Gospel is the parable of the prodigal son. On 1st July as part of the Ripon Theatre Festival there is a play in the cathedral about the life of Henri Nouwen, who wrote a commentary on the parable, the return of the prodigal son. Last Tuesday folk from five of the Ripon churches shared a fabulous evening exploring the book and its themes. Then on Wednesday morning in an assembly on compassion at Holy Trinity Infants School I got the children to act the story out. We even had pig noises!
Nouwen suggests the heart of Jesus message is a God of compassion who waits for us and runs to meet us. He says reflecting on the world, “The farther I run away from the place where God dwells, the less I am able to hear the voice that calls me the Beloved, and the less I hear that voice, the more entangled I become in the manipulations and power games of the world.” How good is it we have a God who waits, who rejoices at our return, who throws his arms around us and celebrates when we are found.

Love one another as I have loved you. That is the reason we do church. That is the reason we reach out. That is the reason we are hospitable. That is the reason we engage with our town. All matter, all deserve our attention, all are welcome, we don’t choose who God loves. Never.
Friends I don’t come here very often but I hear a lot about things like Wednesday Welcome and Saturday coffee and outreach into the town and I commend those things because they are manifestations of love. Love one another is a response to the love of God seen in Jesus every day. We remember it at Christmas, we remember it at Easter but we easily forget it at other times. Maybe like I have the Lord’s Prayer written out, and I have lists at home to remember things, we need constant reminders that God loves us and God tells us, his church to get on with loving.
But that has to mean everyone, and it also has to mean encounter outside the church building. Gareth met me in Ripon the other day. As we walked across the market square he laughed and said, “you do know a lot of people don’t you?” I’ve spent a lot of time being seen, having conversation, showing the Church will engage with you, laugh with you, cry with you, show you you matter. We’ve forgotten to go out because we are tired keeping inside going. Haven’t we?
Jesus’ spirit will lead us, and we can be assured there will be conversion and change involved. As we continue to get to know him, we simultaneously discover parts of ourselves that have yet to become aligned with God’s better-than-imaginable dream for the world, for our congregation, for you, and for me. The story in Acts 11 isn’t just about the conversion of the Gentiles; it is also about the deepening of Peter’s conversion, the deepening of his understanding of what it means to follow Jesus, the ever-expanding invitation to join the Holy People of God, and the extinction of the “out” category. A new commandment I give you – love one another as I have loved you.
And maybe this is the way forward. Let Pope Leo have the last word:
" Brothers, sisters…
I speak to you, especially to those who no longer believe, no longer hope, no longer pray, because they think God has left.
To those who are fed up with scandals, with misused power, with the silence of a Church that sometimes seems more like a palace than a home.
I, too, was angry with God.
I, too, saw good people die, children suffer, grandparents cry without medicine. And yes… there were days when I prayed and only felt an echo. But then I discovered something:
God doesn't shout. God whispers. And sometimes He whispers from the mud, from pain, from a grandmother who feeds you without having anything.
I don't come to offer you perfect faith.
I come to tell you that faith is a walk with stones, puddles, and unexpected hugs.
I'm not asking you to believe in everything.
I'm asking you not to close the door. Give a chance to the God who waits for you without judgment.
I'm just a priest who saw God in the smile of a woman who lost her son... and yet she cooked for others.
That changed me.
So if you're broken, if you don't believe, if you're tired of the lies... come anyway. With your anger, your doubt, your dirty backpack.
No one here will ask you for a VIP card.Because this Church, as long as I breathe, will be a home for the homeless, and a rest for the weary.
God doesn't need soldiers. He needs brothersand sisters. And you, yes, you... are one of them."
Remember today you are loved. Jesus is here.
Remind yourselves you cannot exclude people from it.
Be a church that is love embodied and takes that love where love needs to be. Be invitational. The Church is called to be a place where all—all God’s friends—are welcomed and invited to share in life in all its fullness.
A new commandment I give to you, love one another.
