Wednesday 31 December 2014

Prayer for New Year's Eve 2014



I used to get all worked up about New Years Eve. The night can be one of heightened emotions and danger out there as people do some funny things. The need to be with people and to be loved on this night seems to be more than any other night. Yes, there are people and places I would dearly love to be with tonight but I am not there. I am quite content with a glass or two of Bailey's Chocolate Liqueur and Jules Holland on the telly, or Queen from Methodist Central Hall and some fireworks on the other side. I will text some friends later and will be "with people" that way. My Mum is here but she goes to bed at 8.

Why do we think tonight so important? Why do we think tomorrow suddenly life will be different? Why is being alone so bad and painful tonight for many people, some who will go out and make huge mistakes after a glass or eight. We were hearing from the manager at Pontins at Camber Sands recently exploring Street Pastors going in there on nights like tonight. There are some horror stories relationship wise in that place! Perhaps we need in life nights when we look back, perhaps with regret but also thankfulness. I have made some mistakes in 2014, I have got into a situation I still can't resolve which bothers me, despite me not being able to do anything about it. I have also had a good year with my churches being lovely, and despite being in a place and a role at the end of the year I did not expect, I am content. There is much to look forward to. The most precious thing I have rediscovered in 2014 is that I am not on my own, I have special people, and some very special people who journey with me, and who enrich my journeying. You know you who are and I thank you tonight. I hope people who find tonight hard, don't make too much of it and go to bed. I will sit up, I am not sure why but it feels important to mark the year's passing and to quietly enter a new one, whatever that means and whoever comes with me in it. Happy New Year everyone!

God of time, thank you for the year that is coming to an end in a few hours, the new opportunities, my work and my churches, my friends who have become important to me and my family. 

God of every moment, be with those who find this night impossible. Be with those who are racked with loneliness with the pressure to be with someone to kiss at midnight! 

God of new beginnings, may the New Year begin well, may I live every day, cherishing every moment. Where I get it wrong, forgive me. Where I miss your guidance, put me straight, and when I get bogged down, reenergise me and give me surprises to lift my soul and lighten my spirit. 

On this New Year's Eve, O God, in the words of the hymn writer, I praise you for all that is past, and I trust you for all that is come. Amen. 


Tuesday 30 December 2014

Prayer for Christmas Day 6 - Time to do other things


I love these days between Christmas and New Year. I do a little work but not a lot as I am "on call" until Saturday. I notice people taking time to stock up on things to make the New Year more effective. Many shops are now full of sale items and the queues at the tills are large. We seem to need new things for a new year! Here is my Mum eyeing up saucepans in Dunelm Mill here in Hastings. No saucepans were bought as they were, she said, cheaper in the shop we had come out half an hour before. This brings back memories of Saturday shopping trips with my Mum and my Auntie who would always look at every shop to weigh up things and they always drag my poor Uncle back to the shop the afternoon began in!

It is also good in these days to take time to do other things at leisure. I have just cooked a meal for my colleague Peggy and Mum to share at teatime. It will be "sort of work" as we need to discuss Sunday's Circuit Service but it will be good to spend time with no agenda and just be. 
I treasure these "inbetween" days. 

God of activity and of rest, help me treasure the "inbetween" in life. January and its pressures will come soon enough. Help me in these days to work out what I need to begin a New Year well, not necessarily a new saucepan, but quality relationships and some perspective. Amen. 

Monday 29 December 2014

Prayer for Christmas Day 5 - Resting


This is the beginning of a funny few days in between festivities, with one or two things to do but not very much. 

I reflected on times of relaxed waiting as I waited for my Mum to be delivered unto me at Folkestone services this afternoon. People were enjoying a coffee prior to moving on somewhere or waiting for someone like me. There is plenty of work ahead but for now it can wait and I can semi chill this week, in the in-between time, 

God of all time, thank you for days when I can leave things to come and relax in the moment. All will happen at the appointed time. Help me to rest and not rush on to deal with things that can wait for a few days. Give me coffee opportunities this week. Amen. 

Sunday 28 December 2014

Prayer for Christmas Day 4 - Anticipating if not knowing


Today, the last Sunday of the year, I chose to focus in church on angels and the fact that angels appear in the Christmas story, announce something about to happen, clear off and leave humanity to work out how to respond. We had an amazing service this morning - I thought few would be there, we had 51!

I took this picture on my walk in Hastings this afternoon. It is taken from "Bottle Alley" and is looking out to sea. You can't see what is beyond the horizon, but it looks bright and positive. From the safety of the shelter, we are invited to look and dream and see possibilities. We might not see all the detail but we have a future, a direction we are told will be okay. I end the year having managed to make up Superintendency as I go along, without anyone noticing (!) and I have six churches full of possibility as we prepare for 2015. In church 1 we are suddenly engaging with families and children and plan to open our doors for open house every Thursday morning from February; in church 2 we are about to host a hosted Post Office service for the village which will bring new opportunities for conversation with people who live around us; in church 3 we continue to build on young people's work and we are starting serious reflection about how we will be church as our building fails us; in church 4 we are planning to put in glass doors to enable us to be more open to our tourist context and in partnership with other churches we have opened a Food Bank and will launch Street Pastors in the Spring; in church 5 we have seen a sudden new confidence and we are developing work beginning Messy Church and new house groups and receiving new people into membership in May and we are seeing our coffee morning on a Friday grow and in church 6, we are seeing Messy Church and Cafe Worship grow dramatically we are almost full up as our building is small. All of these initiatives have come from people seeing possibilities and going for them. It seems to me the Christmas story is about journeying. The shepherds went, not knowing every detail, but they still went. They didn't discuss it for long, they went quickly. This morning in worship I felt a confidence in people that maybe 2015 might be a special year for us all as we believe in God's call and in our own ability to travel. We need to look out to sea, to the bright sky and believe...

God of new beginnings and bright skies, help me to be like the shepherds of old on the hills of Bethlehem. When I am confronted with good news, with divine activity or told to believe a bit and go for it, help me to trust and to try. As a little card I have somewhere says "with God, there is nothing he and I cannot do together." Thank you for the last couple of years of travelling where we have discovered some foundations. Help us to be expectant and to journey on in confidence. Amen, 


Saturday 27 December 2014

Prayer for Christmas Day 3: Angel songs



I have discovered again this year that people want to be presented with a different way, because things aren't going very well for them. Part of Christmas I enjoy is engaging with people who perhaps only encounter “religion” once a year. Reflecting on December in my church in Hastings where I will share some of these thoughts tomorrow, our carol singing round the streets was excellent, a lot of people joining in, a lovely spirit, and children excited. Our Christingle was like a party – the children in the back corner excited that they knew me. Our community carol morning in our hall was a fun occasion, with Santa in the doorway attracting the attention of passing van drivers, the lady opposite peering out of her curtains and children passing by. Our Christmas Tree Festival got our church open and those who came appreciated some space to look and to wonder. Part of our plans for 2015 include to get the church open far more, to say to people there can be a different way. You need not be lonely, you are not on your own, God is involved in your life, and there can be deep joy for you.

Our task, call it evangelism if you must, is to remind people of the divine in our midst – do not be afraid. We are to sing a song that there has come a different way. We need to keep alive the rumour of God and we need to remind people of sudden explosions of joy in life, the incarnate love and peace of God in our midst. Immanuel, God with us. 
An Iona book of reflections puts the challenge well:
In that region, where people are afraid to go outside, where there is little hope for people, a world of darkness and desolation, people wondering what tomorrow will bring.
The Christmas angels come singing “Do not be afraid” in fearful places. They flew first to the ones in need of good news, least likely to be looking for it, or even expecting it, and quite frankly with more reason than most to refuse the invitation to believe in anything as unlikely as hope.
It is said that angels are simply God’s messengers – bringing with them a simple, if unbelievable, possibility. “It doesn't have to be this way,” they say. “Come and see this new thing that has been made known.”
If there is to be a stirring of angel wings, a new song building in the air, then in this region God’s messengers, you and me minus the haloes, have to be audacious enough to sing in fearful places.     
Angel songs tell us things are about to be different, and we are to be the angels who take God’s message where God calls us to be. Who needs an angel today?

Someone wrote in something I read that angels bring disturbing news to settled people. They open the eyes of working people to a vision of heaven, and they noisily and untidily being good news to a people who are willing to get off their backsides and come down the hill to a stable.
The writer then says angels just bring the news, open our eyes, have a party and clear off again, leaving us to work out where we go from here. No one forced the shepherds to go to Bethlehem. Their hearts were suddenly full of wonder and they could do no other than go and find out more.           

I wonder whether we need to be reminded to be more God centred and less church centred as we go forward. We can get so caught up in being church we have no energy to encounter God, and if we do, we want our God to be safe, and only to do things we can cope with. “There aren’t many of us now, we are getting older, please leave us be,” we cry. But if we close our hearts to the possibility of God, we miss something we celebrate in this Christ event, and if we close our hearts to God doing anything we pack away our hopes and prayers with the decorations at the end of all of this Christmas thing and that cannot be.

Luke tells us that the shepherds went back and glorifying and praising God for all they had seen and heard, different people. They had an encounter with the glory of God, through angel song and the simplicity of a child in a manger.

Do we forget the wonder of God coming TO us? How do we respond to the glory of God, and good news for all? 

None of us know what God might do with us next, but we have to be open as his people that angels will come to us, give us good news, give us a sign, and move us on to possibilities we never thought possible. How will 2015 be for us if we keep that positive attitude going beyond Christmas and try to live it every day? Someone in my Circuit said to me the other week, “the trouble with you is your glass is always half full. You are always so positive.” Well, I was sorry she saw me as a problem. I make no apologies for my style. I believe the Gospel, Jesus, God’s love, is positive and needs to be shared with some excitement. A church that is miserable, and drones on about problems will soon die. 

God, thank you for angel songs. Help me to be open to hear them, not just when it is Christmas. Amen. 

Friday 26 December 2014

Prayer for Boxing Day





We are so exhausted! More so than yesterday! 

So a simple prayer:
Thank you for our bed, God! Amen! 

Thursday 25 December 2014

Prayer for Christmas Day

Two services done, no more O come all ye faithful for 11 months! A sleep and now enjoying Kiss Me Kate on the telly. Time to rest.
My services today were very different - a party atmosphere at the first with many younger people coming home to Hastings for Christmas with families. The second was quieter, but had two little children excited over what they had received. One had a Frozen costume and the other a scooter. At the end of the service I was given an enormous hamper with things every person in the church had put something in. I was thanked for everything I do and was told by my organist I am a treasure! 

Christmas is about being valued. I am in a good place here and I thank God for six lovely communities. I am hoping people are finding value today especially those who are on their own or who are being helped in shelters and in other temporary places of good will. I hope some of this value is still here in the darkness of January, when need is still there and I need to push my church on to make decisions... 

So to a nice evening eating and watching Danny Dyer implode in the Queen Vic. 

God of amazing generosity thank you for the gifts of today, nice words, gifts and now the gift of rest. Christmas God, help me to accept your gifts and share with others when this day is over and the realities of life are all around. Amen. 

These reflections will continue until January 6th so please come back.

Wednesday 24 December 2014

Prayer for Christmas Eve - Expectation


I love Christmas Eve - rather more than Christmas Day! Singing along to the radio this morning, preparing worship, installing a new fridge (don't ask) and two Christingle services both full of families very excited. I used a verse from the Apocrypha today "sanctify yourselves, for tomorrow the Lord will work wonders among you." Both churches I was in today had the largest number out for Christingle in recent years and there was a lovely spirit. 

I need to stay awake to share in a midnight communion. The expectation is all around me. Somehow this night is one of deep spirituality and possibility and I am glad to experience that. 

God of expectation, on this night long ago you worked wonders in this world. 
Do the same tonight, bring peace and comfort to those who need it most. Bring laughter and celebration to those who need to have some of those things in their lives. Bring peace to those who are on their own. Bring rest to clapped out ministers with three services to go. Most of all, God of surprises, thrill our hearts as you come again. Amen. 

Tuesday 23 December 2014

Prayer for Advent Day 24 - Appreciation



I arrived home just now from taking a funeral to find these flowers above and then this card below.
The flowers are from a little church I am merely watching over this year but which is a real blessing to me as it grows. The card is from a baptismal family I helped last month who had been turned away from other churches and have found an acceptance and a welcome in one of mine.



Small acts of kindness can make a huge difference. I don't do this work to be thanked but two days before Christmas it is lovely to be appreciated and given energy through people being thoughtful.

I wonder what kindness we might do every day to help people keep going and remind them they are valued. Often this season it happens for a few days, but, as one of my friends wrote in a Facebook post the other day, people still need to know they matter in February.

God, thank you for these flowers and this card. They are insignificant but they mean a lot to me tonight. Thank you for people who remind me I matter. May I help people in small ways, not just at Christmas, but every day. In Jesus' name. Amen. 

Monday 22 December 2014

Prayer for Advent Day 23 - What we need for Christmas


A prayer for Monday, three days before Christmas, reflecting on people in the supermarket at lunchtime...

God, what do I need to do Christmas? Does my trolley need to be so full I cannot fit any more in it? Do I need to buy sprouts and dates and Christmas pudding and those cheesy footballs for it to be Christmas? Tempers were frayed in the shop, people were panicking, it has to be perfect. 

This year, O God, I just want a simple Christmas. I am trying to understand why people fill it with so much. All I need in these days is to know your peace, rather than stuffing myself silly with things I never eat at any other time of the year. Forgive me, Lord, though, I seem to have eaten a whole box of chocolates while writing this prayer which happened to be on the desk! 


Sunday 21 December 2014

Prayer for Advent Day 22 - Done in!



A simple prayer tonight after four carol services... All very lovely. This morning after service 1, someone said "see you on Thursday" to which I said, "Why? What is happening on Thursday?" Genuinely!

Lord, were Mary and Joseph in a heap after days of doing your will. Did they collapse in that stable before birth began? Were they done in from doing? I just wonder...

Lord, I love this Sunday more than any other of the year, carols, telling your story, meeting people, and I've had a lovely day with four very different services, it was especially lovely seeing a small village church have a real all age celebration this afternoon and the place full of all ages. 

But now Lord, let your servant depart in peace until Tuesday morning! Let your servant enjoy a ready meal and a glass of red. I wonder if Mary and Joseph were fed when they arrived in Bethlehem, exhausted. At least I have a home to come home to, and warmth and food. They had very little. 

And Lord, if there is justice, please let Bianca win the Apprentice! 

Saturday 20 December 2014

Prayer for Advent Day 21 - Donkeys


We hold a Carols in the Barn service in one of my villages in aid of Farm Africa. 
It reminded me powerfully tonight that God came into the world in human form in the smelly and unlikely place, in the cold, away from civilisation. 

My prayer simply tonight is to help us remember where God came and will come today. Are we prepared to enter the smelly and cold places and find God in them, or are we too comfortable? 

A highlight of tonight was when one of these donkeys nearly ate the baby Jesus who was placed rather too near this rail for a while!

O God, remind me tonight where you come, into the darkness, into the cold, into the dirt, into the smelly reality of life, outside. Remind me tonight that is where I should be too. If Christmas is really to come, then it is not my church who should be celebrating, it is people I have not yet met. If I do not enter their world and help them and remind them where they are, that God comes to them, then I have misunderstood the story I am singing, sharing, reading, preaching over and over again in these weeks. Amen. 

Friday 19 December 2014

Prayer for Advent Day 20 - Laughter


I hit another Advent wall this afternoon and went to bed. This year, Advent feels relentless and sometimes I have needed to stop. 

But tonight I went out for another lot of carol singing with a very small, but enthusiastic group from St Helens Church in Ore Village. At some points we were very out of tune, the carols were too high, and we were singing different bits to each other! But what was brilliant about tonight was we had great fun! There was lots of laughter and we felt better for being out on the road by our church, together. Sometimes laughter is the best medicine to help you keep going and put things into perspective. So, thank you to Mike and Gillian, to Katy, Connor and Finlay, to Vicki and William, to David, and to Carol (who only came out to put some Christmas cards through some doors and heard us and joined us) for a super night. I have renewed energy now for two services and a Christmas tree festival in one of my villages tomorrow and four carol services on Sunday.   

God of laughter and celebration, thank you for tonight and for people who came together to sing carols with joy and lightness of spirit, and thank you for our neighbours in Clifton Road who gave us £51 for Save The Children. Sometimes simple acts make all the difference. In Jesus name I pray. Amen. 

Thursday 18 December 2014

Prayer for Advent Day 19 - a favourite prayer will have to do!



This prayer from Mary Fleeson who has a wonderful scriptorium on Lindisfarne hangs in my dining room. I love this prayer. Sometimes I feel wrung out and I need to remember my call. I post this tonight for all my lovely clergy friends who are knackered with one week to go. This weekend for us is the busiest of all year, even if it is the loveliest! I have a banging migraine tonight, I have an in box full of stuff that if I tried to deal with it now would not be sensible. Circuit Staffing Plan to 2019 can wait! So, "be who I am, be where I am and be what I am" tonight means going to bed for a bit, then feeling better, having a cuddle with the cat, and feeling better to face more carol services, school nativities and carol singing tomorrow!

Dear God, tonight I pray help me accept that tonight as I have nothing on, I need do nothing. I haven't written a single Christmas card, the house is a tip, and the desk is full of chaos. But I need to stop. That is okay! Thank you God for nights in in the diary. I am sorry I have a migraine. Thank you for the darkness and for my bed. All will be well. I will be back tomorrow. Grant me now good sleep and healing peace. In Jesus' name. Amen. 

Wednesday 17 December 2014

Prayer for Advent Day 18 - Carol Singing



We have been out in our local community carol singing tonight. Santa joined us!

It was brilliant to be amongst our neighbours who really appreciated joining with us from their doorsteps. Many children waved from windows and some got to speak with Santa which was really exciting for them. A tradition here is the lovely couple at the end of the route who provide alcoholic mulled wine and mince pies. 

What is it about carols that people love? It is just a tradition that you have them, or is there something more in them? They are all optimistic, about a different world, about positive qualities like love, joy, peace and hope. Perhaps people sing them and don't think about what they are singing. If they did, they would realise they are singing some of the most profound theology around. I still believe Hark, the herald angels sing is the greatest piece of incarnational theology ever written. If we think about those words, they are mindblowing. 

I have many more carol services and carol singing sessions over the next eight days. I am glad they provide a chance to do God around us. On Saturday we are trying an informal singalong in our community and on Monday we are singing in ASDA, which is quite an experience! Perhaps I will post an image of that then. 

God, thank you for carols and carol singers. Thank you for the messages of carols that a new world can come. I pray for people who hear carol singers that they may hear the angels sing through the message of the words. Thank you for the privilege of being able to engage with people in their own world. In Jesus' name. Amen. 


Tuesday 16 December 2014

Prayer for Advent Day 17 - Greed


I write this reflecting on the events of the last 24 hours: the siege in Sydney and innocent people having a coffee being massacred at the hands of a terrorist. We are not sure who shot who in that tragedy, but it is still a tragedy however it happened. Then today we hear of schoolchildren in Pakistan murdered at the hands of the Taliban. Our Prime Minister calls it, quite rightly, a "dark day for humanity." We live in a world where power, threat, a desire to dominate and overwhelm what isn't ours are real issues every day. 

It happens in my house. Molly goes out for a bit, I leave the kitchen door open. The fat cat from down the road comes in, eats all the food and laughes at us. Here is a scene from earlier this evening as I sat writing in the study. Molly is helpless and can only watch as her dinner is stolen from her in a invasion of greed - this fat cat doesn't care at all and keeps coming back. She is above any rules or shouting. 

Later tonight I am leading a Circuit bible study on King Herod and his place in the Christmas narrative. He was obsessed with greed, threatened by another presence on his patch, he struck out because he thought his way was being challenged. He became more and more unhinged as the power went to his head. We think, in the end, the power drove him to insanity. Pastorally, we have people around us who are daily threatened by people who want their own way, who want to invade others space or rubbish their ideas or accuse them of things that they never did. The more they push, the ore they come and eat out a bowl that isn't theirs, they hope they will grind those that they push into submission so that they can be vindicated and dominate. I love the verse in Matthew's second chapter where the magi return home by another road having been warned not to return to Herod by an angel. The fat cats will still be there, but it is how we deal with them that is important. Molly is okay, she will get another dinner. Others are not okay. The bullying culture and the threat from those in the world who want to remind us of their presence, is more of an issue that we never seem to deal with. (Even in churches....) 

Part of the message of incarnation is that an alternative way has come, is come, and will come. We need to enter the world with love and sharing, so that in the end, the fat cat will give up because goodness is stronger. We need though, for now to be alongside those who are constantly being got at and worse, whose lives are threatened daily in our world, and we need to keep praying for peace. 

God of justice and peace, I pray tonight for a world where people are constantly being threatened and abused because of others lust for power. 
I pray tonight for people who are going about their daily lives and suddenly in the middle of tragedy. I pray for all those who have lost loved ones in Australia and in Pakistan this week. 
God, you entered a world in a mess and you still come into a world like that. So, I pray for all those who need to know you with them while others try to dominate them and take what is theirs or destroy their self-worth. And I pray for people who are obsessed with power that they too may find peace. 
May your Kingdom come, soon. Amen. 

Monday 15 December 2014

Prayer for Advent Day 16 - Shopping


I braved Hastings town centre this morning. It was surprisingly quiet, including the supermarket. As I put my weekly shop on the belt, I thought "how will this be in here in a week's time?" Chaos, no doubt. This pile of shopping looks like I have more cat food than anything else! Even in the quietness some people were piling up their trolleys like food will be no more in a day or so's time. 

One of the carols we sang last night spoke of  "enough" - enough for him whom cherubim worship night and day. There is enough for everyone. We will have enough on Christmas Day (probably too much... so we will end Christmas dinner by saying "I cannot eat another thing ever!" Then a few hours later the table will be laid for tea.)

Enough, rather than excess. We must be aware some people will not have enough in these weeks to live, let alone party. Food banks will be at breaking point, shelters will be full, and loneliness through lack of deep relationship, will worsen. If only we would learn to share. 

Mind you, sometimes we deserve a treat. It is my day off, before any of my church members reading this have a word about the chocolate mid way down the shopping here! 

God of good things, you have given enough for everyone to be filled. But we have taken too much so that others do not have enough to live as you would have them live. May these next few days see a generosity of spirit, real sharing, beginning where we are, and may we be patient when the shopping world goes mad and we pop out on Christmas Eve because we have forgotten something important. Christmas is a funny time, O God. Some of it I just don't get! Amen. 


Sunday 14 December 2014

Prayer for Advent Day 15 - More Peace!


I have just got in from leading perhaps the nicest and most powerful carol service I have led and shared in for years. We tried a different, lighter, all age approach to it tonight in one of my "temporary" churches. Part of the service was getting people to write prayers for peace on post it notes while I read the powerful Christmas Truce poem by Carol Ann Duffy. (Beware fellow leaders of worship if you use this, there is a LOT of German in it!) Then I asked people to bring prayers forward as we sang Silent Night. I was deeply moved how many people came forward. We shared the prayers later in the service and then afterwards we placed the prayers in our foyer for others to see and share. There were some heartfelt pleas for peace.

This morning, I received a horrible letter which rocked me. I needed peace tonight and found it. I needed to know I am not going mad. I needed to know I can remain who I am and even if some people accuse me of stuff if I remain faithful and myself all will be well. I reminded the congregation of all ages tonight that Christmas maybe is about God seeing small bits of potential in us by coming into our lives and encouraging us to be us. So many people want to destroy our peace and our hope and our journey. So thank you my friends at Little Common tonight for putting me back together.

God, it is encouraging when people put their prayers together for peace. We all want a better world. We all want to make a difference. I pray for carol services this year and people who are encountering this story. Perhaps they are coming for some peace. I pray for difficult situations and problems that never seem to go away that peace might come. I pray for people who are not at peace with themselves at the moment. I pray for their healing. Most of all, thank you God for the privilege of sharing worship with others. May our prayers tonight offered for peace be answered and may we, by being community be peace bringers into the hurting places around us. In Jesus name, the Prince of Peace. Amen. 

Saturday 13 December 2014

Prayer for Advent Day 14 - Peace


I love to watch the sun set over the houses the other side of the road from the manse window. It is a beautiful afternoon here today, cold but a lovely blue sky. Taking this picture I sensed peace and stillness. I am also feeling peaceful and still as both my services for tomorrow are written, early for me on a Saturday as my colleague and I are having a staff Christmas do (paid for by ourselves!) We are going to see Frank Skinner in Bexhill, so there is a sense of peace in "bunking off" tonight! 

In the busy period we are in, all of us need moments of calm and centring again. Nights out, staring out of windows, a sense of achievement jobs are completed and we need do no more today are vital to our well being, physically and spiritually. We need more of them. 

God of peace, thank you for calm moments, things to meditate on, the setting sun, and the promise of a night out! Thank you for times of rest and refreshment, especially before busy days. Help us to appreciate them and enjoy them. And bless those who say "how can you have time to go to things like that at this time?" In Jesus name. Amen. 

Friday 12 December 2014

Prayer for Advent Day 13 - Expectation




This is an empty stage in Staplecross Village Hall prior to our Methodist Primary School Nativity. Children were backstage when I took this, expectant about performing. When they got on the stage, they were excited about being there. I loved the angels especially who kept waving at the audience!

Advent is about positive expectation. Expectation that something good is about to happen. Sometimes our relationship with God is lessened because we have stopped being expectant. What are you excited about as you read this? What can't you wait to come?

God, come into our hearts today with your presence and peace. Help us expect much. Help us to be excited at your coming, and when what we expect happens, like children in a school nativity help us to really enjoy experiencing it, so that others may be infected with our joy. Amen. 

Thursday 11 December 2014

Prayer for Advent Day 12 - Looking for answers


I spotted this poster in Tenterden this afternoon walking back from picking up my nativity story in Russian dolls at Waitrose. 

People are looking in these weeks for solutions to their problems and think the answer is Christmas! Why though do people get so stressed about these weeks and about one day? I don't get it. Someone today was horrified when I said I CHOOSE to spend Christmas Day quietly this year and on my own. That will be lovely, stress free and peaceful. Waitrose was horrendous this afternoon! 

What is the answer? Well, this poster suggested having your Christmas dinner (at an extortionate price) in the pub. Has the Christian Church the answer this Christmas to people's questions and problems? Perhaps not if we are remote and only answer what we think people want answering! On Saturday at the Little Common bash, after the Rector told people they could come and ask him and me anything about faith or about the story of Christmas, a lady came up and said, looking at us both, "How come you worship different Gods?" A perfectly logical question, seeing two different vicars introduced differently. The question threw us. 

Today I have sat alongside a bereaved family, I have shared in a fabulous school nativity and I have listened to where a church is struggling with priorities and mission. People have lots of problems and questions. I pointed out tonight it is important to admit we don't have answers every day and to air the questions and leave them in community and with God. 

God, people have so much stress today, stress about targets, health, church, family, job security, lists of things that get longer. They want to be stress free! If only it were so simple that we could go into a spiritual pub and be sorted, just like that. But maybe it is simple. Often airing the questions, sharing the stress with another person or in honest prayer can give us peace and perspective. I pray today for Waitrose shoppers who were getting very bad tempered over the endless choices of stuffing. Lord, I never knew how many different stuffings you can get. I don't do Waitrose very often!  God of peace, help me to meet people who question with patience and with honesty and where I don't get it especially in these weeks, help me to come to you a bit more. Amen.  

Wednesday 10 December 2014

Prayer for Advent Day 11 - Forty Winks!!!


On the eleventh day of Advent my true love sent to me:
One school assembly
One phone call to chase up a grant which pays for a church Christmas dinner
One Circuit Lunch Club Christmas Dinner followed by "entertainment"
One staff meeting
One frustrating hour in a traffic jam
One Brownie concert
And one worship consultation

Inbetween traffic jam and Brownies I sat in the car and shut my eyes (taking this selfie first!) I slept for half an hour and nearly missed Brownies altogether!!! 

The sleep did me good. So, my thoughts today well into carols and dinners and more carols and services and more carols are, what will you do in the course of a busy day that is JUST FOR YOU? If you need a sleep, have a sleep. We cannot rush around all day. Even God had a rest!

O God, thank you for the gift of half an hour's snooze in the midst of busy activity. As Advent progresses and things get even busier, help me to stop more in order to cope with more. Otherwise I will be in a heap come Christmas morning and I will be so tired it will not be any fun at all. Amen. 

Tuesday 9 December 2014

Prayer for Advent Day 10 - Prayer at the heart


Our Circuit Advent Bible Studies began today. I invited the Circuit to come together for three mornings or three evenings to take some time out. 7 people joined me in Bexhill this morning and 17 in Battle tonight. A shame so many told me they were too busy to come.

We considered Anna in our sessions today, using Stephen Cottrell's excellent book of meditations "Walking Backwards to Christmas" and we thought about the wisdom of senior age, about constant prayer, about being certain about something, about waiting and about a journey as St Augustine put it once to "the end that has no end."

I love doing groups and I wish more people (especially those who say they are too busy) would come to them. I firmly believe that churches will only grow if we put spirituality, prayer and sharing faith problems and joys together at the heart of what we do. I know not everyone agrees with me!

I am thinking tonight about groups of people meeting in Advent to pray, to watch and wait and to enjoy reacting to the Scriptures and being together,

God of community, I get frustrated when Christian people tell me keeping a church going is more important than spending time with you and with others doing spiritual things. Sometimes we forget why we are here! Tonight I pray for little groups meeting all over the world to grow in faith, respond to your word and be better disciples. I remember how Anna when she knew you had come in a baby praised God and spoke to everyone about it. Help me to help people see the need to search for you, to long for you, to find you and then share you. Please help those who are too busy to find some space to let you in. They don't know what they are missing! Amen. 

Monday 8 December 2014

Prayer for Advent Day 9 - What do you want?



Monday. Day off. Bliss!

But so far today has been spent trying to work out why Molly the cat is in a right old mood. She just sits on the stairs giving me evils and now she has moved to the bed and is sulking. She has food, she has been out, and I have been here all morning. I do not know what she wants.

Perhaps God feels like me with Molly today. He gives me everything he thinks I need, but I am still not happy. Sometimes I am diffident in asking for the thing I need most to enable me to move on from my mood which is hampering me. Today I am remembering people who are stuck, unable to share what they need with anyone, too frightened to pray, and those who want constant attention by putting their mood in others faces but not sharing what the real problem is.

I hope Molly's mood will improve after a sulk and a sleep. Otherwise, it is going to be a long day!

O God, sometimes I feel like Molly the cat. I have everything I need but there is always something more I would like. But sometimes it is hard to bring my deepest needs to you because I think praying for me is a bit self centred. Teach me on this Monday it is not wrong to come to you with my deepest desires, my problems, my frustrations. And where others need extra care, help me this week to be sensitive to them and to find them where they are, as Jesus did meeting people everywhere. In his name I pray. Amen. 

Leaving Molly to sleep, I am off to explore the new Aldi...

Sunday 7 December 2014

Prayer for Advent Day 8 - Nothing can trouble you...


This evening, I have led and shared with folk in Pett in a candlelit Taize Service. It was an amazing, peaceful time. The silence at the end of worship was very special and we all felt close to God. Several people had been invited who hadn't been to church for a long time. I hope they got something out of it. 

I ended the service with "nothing can trouble you, nothing can frighten you" and said that I believe incarnation is about knowing in the end all will be well. God enters every state and can transform it from within. Thank you Pett friends for two services where I as the minister have been encouraged today. 

God of light, shine in the darkness of our lives. 
God of peace, come into the strife of our lives.
God of hope, come into the doubt we feel when things feel difficult. 
God of surprises, come and startle as we begin a new working week tomorrow.
God who is everywhere, be with us, always. Amen. 

Saturday 6 December 2014

Prayer for Advent Day Seven - Being Community


I went to my first Christmas carol service and party tonight. I stood by this roundabout for ages waiting for Santa and the Mayor of Bexhill to arrive. And froze! It was the Little Common and Cooden Business Association launch of Christmas in the village. A huge do. We stood in the freezing road at the roundabout listening to Chris De Burgh blasting out “A Spaceman Came Travelling”, then the Mayor of Bexhill waffled on for a bit and then Santa appeared, and then we followed Santa down the street into the British Legion for a Carol Service led by the Rector and by me. It was a hard gig. A lot of people there for the free food and the children’s disco. Let’s get this pesky service done with quickly. 

The service was followed by party games and loud music and a baked potato and a glass of wine. A thoroughly good community occasion, much enjoyed by everyone. (Perhaps even the service!) I sat there and thought what is it that is making everyone so excited? It was if Christmas Day itself had arrived in Little Common last night. Well, we did sing “Yay Lord we greet thee born this happy morning” so perhaps it was December 25th over there!

I think this season for people is about comfort and joy. We sang it tonight: tidings of comfort and joy. But where are people getting comfort and joy this year? Is Christmas escapism, or is there a permanent message in it and what is our place in it? 
Comfort. What is comfort? Well, we speak of a comfortable bed, a comfortable hotel on holiday, we need comforting when we are upset, we need comfort when life is hard. People want comfortable lives. They want the best they can get. A grandfather was talking to his granddaughter. “When I was a child all we got for Christmas was an apple and an orange.” The little girl clapped her hands in joy. “Brilliant!” she said, “I’d love a new computer and a mobile.” 

Tonight I watched a village community having fun. We were in the heart of it as a church. I wonder what tonight did for people? 

O God, it is good for people to come together and have fun in these weeks. It was a shock to some people tonight to see the minister stay for food and watch children dance to Cheryl whatshername now and that song from Frozen and down a glass of wine. But this is where you call us to be, in the middle of celebration, in the middle of community life. My prayer tonight O God, is for the Church, especially where she is still too obsessed with keeping a building going and having no energy to be amongst your people where they are. If Jesus really is Immanuel God with us, then we have got it very wrong in many places. May this Advent journey renew us for engagement and to discover actually being in the world can be fun! Amen. 



Friday 5 December 2014

Prayer for Advent Day 6 - Hitting a Friday night wall


Six days into Advent... Friday night... Long day with some difficult pastoral visits and conversations... Is it okay to collapse in a heap six days into Advent? Is it okay to have a night in doing nothing except dinner, watching I'm a Celebrity and catching up with two lots of Eastenders? This is my dining room table, A Friday night mess. Keys, Christmas cards, letters, envelopes, a newspaper I haven't read, a Circuit plan I put a highlighter pen over this morning, an unopened Church Times. Perhaps this is how I am tonight. In a heap! 

I am reminded after a busy week it is okay and more than okay to stop and to be refreshed before beginning the journey again. We need stopping points. Motorway signs flash "Tiredness Kills - Take A Break"; we need some light in every day if we are dealing with difficult stuff. A Circuit Steward and I while having a pastoral conversation today enjoyed a fabulously wonderful bacon sandwich in the Village Cafe at Little Common at lunchtime. I know people who cannot stop. I am not one of them. Advent is a time to stop and be as well as journey. If we don't stop we will feel very bad. If we don't stop (note clergy people reading this) if we don't stop when we can, what state will we be in come Christmas Day? 

So, my friends reading this I will leave the mess on my table until tomorrow. I will leave writing Sunday services and preparing an Advent Bible Study or two until tomorrow. And I will not feel bad about it. 

God, help me to stop when I need to. When life is busy and energy is fading, when demands are too many, when issues that bombard me are one too many, when people are demanding an immediate response, give me courage to say no, I am having some time for me, I will respond to you, but when I can. In the stopping time, give me your peace. In the stopping, shower me with refreshment, sleep, calm, rebalance. If I keep on keeping on, what use will I be to anyone, and I will moan I have so much to do and feel completely knackered! God of activity and God of rest, help me know when to work and when to rest. Assure me the mess on the table will not grow bigger if I leave it overnight and that tomorrow when I feel more active I can deal with it more effectively. Amen. 

Thursday 4 December 2014

Prayer for Advent Day 5 - Companions on the way


Today has been a nice day on the Advent journey. Our staff team (all two of us) went and joined the staff team of the next Circuit in Lydd for a morning of shared reflections led by Deacon Carys Woodley (who is brilliant) and shared silence. It helped me remember I need sometimes to join others to share my road. We were led, we shared where we were with God and we enjoyed the space and the peace together and then a nice lunch in a cafe down the road. During the silence, I went out and found the Parish Church, known as the Cathedral of the Marsh. I was pleased to find Advent posters up, rather than Christmas ones. Today I have been blessed on the Advent journey with others who share in ministry like mine.



God, thank you for companions on the journey towards your birth in Jesus again. Help me to remember I am never alone. Help me to lean on friends and colleagues. Sometimes sharing my own story will help others, and sometimes other stories can help me. Thank you today for shared silence and space, which will help me carry on with all there is to do. In Jesus' name. Amen. 

Wednesday 3 December 2014

A prayer about waiting - Advent Day Four



Today I have been thinking about waiting.

These two pictures are about frustrated waiting. The first is the infamous Harley Shute Road which leads onto the Bexhill Road, our local bottleneck in a morning. The traffic wasn't moving at 8.45 this morning and I had a 9am meeting. I was going to be late. The second was what I found when I got to the meeting. The Rector was late. I had to wait for him to arrive. I got cross inside. Why is he making me wait? I have five meetings today!

I think these weeks teach us a long about waiting. The waiting time can be time to find peace. Radio 1 was blasting out in the car while I was in the queue. Nick Grimshaw played "Christmas Rapping" by The Waitresses. It made me smile. When I got to the church, I was pleased actually to sit for ten minutes and breathe. The waiting time was transformed by attitude.

God has a right time, and that can be frustrating. But if we fret less while waiting and accept that we are not in control, God may surprise, and even a ghastly queue of traffic might be bearable.




Dear God, I hate waiting. I hate waiting in traffic, I hate waiting for people to turn up. More seriously in our world, people hate waiting for news of their health, news about loved ones, and people wait in war torn lands for peace, in lands of poverty for shelter and food, in places of despair for hope. But you can turn the waiting time into a moment of calm and peace. It is up to us. Either we fill every moment with anxious rushing around, guilty that we are not cramming every minute with activity or we can rest in the waiting time and see what happens. God who waits for the right moment, wait with us today. Amen. 

Tuesday 2 December 2014

A Prayer for Advent - Day Three


It has been a cold, grey, raw day here in the South East today. I had a session with my spiritual director in Tonbridge this morning and travelled by train. Coming back, all the trains were late due to signal failure further up the line. This couple were having a good row and shout each other down the platform from me. He was really fed up, cold, wet, frustrated. I think his wife had dragged him out shopping! He doesn't look best pleased I took his picture does he? 

Why are these days so stressful for people? Ask yourself if you are stressed today, what is causing you stress and can you get rid of it? (Not easy if it is your wife making you shopping! A man we met yesterday told us "I am pretending to enjoy having a lovely walk round this Christmas market."

The angel song in these weeks is "Peace on Earth, goodwill to all people." It is not, "Stress on Earth, Bad Tempers to those nearest to us." I hope this man got home okay and that he had a better afternoon then his morning!

Why is it, O God, that we get so worked up about these next few weeks? What can I buy for Auntie who I only see once a year, who doesn't eat chocolates and who had a calendar last year? Where will I spend Christmas Day? How do I survive Christmas with so many expectations on me? Help me to cope with people who are stressed at this time. May my smile help them. I pray for this man and I hope he has a nice Christmas full of peace and joy. In Jesus name. Amen. 

Monday 1 December 2014

A prayer for Advent day two




I have just made writing these thoughts inside day two of Advent. It is 11.35pm and I have been in Manchester all day. I encountered with my friend Louise, the amazing Christmas markets all over the city centre. It felt more like December 23rd than December 1st. The stalls were full of food, food and more food and people were having fun and indulging. I wondered what all of this says about people and this season. Since when has Christmas become a time to stuff ourselves silly, when God came in poverty? This picture was taken at 5,30pm on Market Street just off Piccadilly Gardens. Shoppers going home, laden with stuff. I wonder if part of what we need to do this month, without being killjoys about it, is remind people that happiness might not be bought, and that satisfaction in life might be more than eating to excess. 

God of good things, it is brilliant that in these weeks people will party and have fun and do community and share outings as families. Remind your world that all we have comes from you, but forgive us when we over indulge, when we buy more than we need, when we think love can be bought. While people in this country live in poverty, challenge us about our need for things in our lives. Your Son came into the world with little comforts. And if like shoppers on December 1st we get stressed over presents and lists of things Christmas must have, remind us somehow of simple joys. 
Amen. 

Sunday 30 November 2014

A prayer for Advent day 1


Here is my first picture on my Advent and Christmas picture and prayer project. We had an all age activity afternoon in one of our churches in Bexhill this afternoon to prepare worship for tonight. Sadly I had to miss the worship because I had another service elsewhere. I helped lead a prayer preparation workshop. It was very moving to see children gather round a map of the world and say very boldly why we need to pray for various countries in need. Hands symbolising help and support were placed on the places of the world in most trouble today. Perhaps that's where Advent starts. As we expect God to come into the world as it is, we also need to be committed to join him in the work of redemption and hope transforming from within, The children's' insistence on "we must pray for" places gave me hope and joy this afternoon. I keep telling churches we can learn a lot from children's spirituality...

God of hope, on this first day of Advent, we pray for our world in need. Help us to pray for the world. Help us to be part of the answer to our prayers. May our hands make a difference to where we are, bringing hope and healing to those who need it today. In the name of Jesus who enters a troubled world. Like the young people this afternoon give us the confidence to believe together with you we can make a difference. Amen. 

Saturday 29 November 2014

Journeying through these mad weeks ahead



So it is Saturday afternoon and I have three services to write. Panic! My friend has just texted me to say "it is Advent Sunday tomorrow and I haven't done a thing." My colleague and I have just had an impromptu staff meeting to talk about issues that have erupted over the last few days. We are tired before we begin December!

It is my intention this Advent, then Christmas season (at least up to 6 January) to post an image on this blog, something I see that speaks to me of journeying, of longing, of waiting, of hoping, and to write a prayer to do along with the picture. I wonder what I will see to enable me to focus in these weeks. Spiritually this season is fantastic if you take time to do it, so perhaps I will do less church and more God in these weeks. Can I tell church to go away for a few weeks? I remember a lady in Ashington village in my last appointment telling me about the panic and stress of the season she "just wanted some space and peace to hear the angels sing." I love that quote.

The world thinks it is Christmas already. The media and the shops have been doing Christmas, adding to the pressure, for weeks. Chris Evans on Radio 2 at the end of his programme on Friday said, "Christmas starts on Monday, kids." I want a slow thoughtful walk to Christmas, hence this proposed prayer activity.

I post the day before Advent, an open door from our Christmas Fair at St Helens this morning. Of course Santa was somewhere beyond the door. I had my picture taken with him but not no present as I answered his two questions negatively, which were "have you been a good boy?" and "is your bedroom tidy?" As a little child, I hated going through doors into the darkness of the unknown, to sit on the knee of a man with a beard and a red suit. But Advent is about being brave enough to open doors and see what is there. God's gifts. I pray these weeks to panic less and expect and long more. I hope you will join me.

Saturday 15 November 2014

Spirituality of World War One


I have been doing some reading on the spirituality of World War One and the lasting effects on people of that conflict. We have just marked Remembrance Sunday and Armistice Day.
This year we gathered to remember especially 100 years ago, when folk went to war, facing the unknown. None of them knew what was to come. Many of them sacrificed their lives. Today communities will stand by memorials all over the world with their names on them. The past few months have seen thousands of people view the poppies at the Tower of London, in half term there were so many people, many were turned away. People, and encouragingly, young people, are keen to remember what happened, and to tell the stories, so that they are never forgotten.

Harry Patch, the last fighting tommy, died in 2009 at the age of 111. His autobiography is worth finding and reading. He wrote “What the hell we fought for, I don’t know.” Where was God in that war? What place had God in it? Certainly we shall see in this reflection a shift as war progressed in theological thought. At the beginning God sent people to war, a God of divine justice, needing young men to be sent off to possible slaughter. A God appropriated to narrow nationalist causes. I like this poem from J C Squire written in 1916:
“God heard the embattled nations sing and shout “Gott strafe England” and “God save the King” God this and God that, and God the other thing. “Good God,” said God, “I’ve got my work cut out!”

Later the writing is about God in the mud and mess and death and God weeping rather than sending.
Take the poem “Christ in Flanders” – “this hideous warfare seems to make things clear. We never thought of you much in England-   but now that we are far away from England, we have no doubts, we know that you are here.”

Let me begin in 1914 and a poem by Philip Larkin: "MCMXIV"

Those long uneven lines
Standing as patiently
As if they were stretched outside
The Oval or Villa Park,
The crowns of hats, the sun
On moustached archaic faces
Grinning as if it were all
An August Bank Holiday lark;

And the shut shops, the bleached
Established names on the sunblinds,
The farthings and sovereigns,
And dark-clothed children at play
Called after kings and queens,
The tin advertisements
For cocoa and twist, and the pubs
Wide open all day;

And the countryside not caring
The place-names all hazed over
With flowering grasses, and fields
Shadowing Domesday lines
Under wheats' restless silence;
The differently-dressed servants
With tiny rooms in huge houses,
The dust behind limousines;



Never such innocence,
Never before or since,
As changed itself to past
Without a word--the men
Leaving the gardens tidy,
The thousands of marriages
Lasting a little while longer:
Never such innocence again.

In my home chapel, in Wheathampstead in Hertfordshire, there was a memorial window to World War One soldiers which I used to sit in front of every Sunday as a child. The names on it were mostly my distant relatives. In 2004, the chapel closed and it was later sold with the windows in it. It was demolished in 2006. There is no record when the window was installed, it was after the war as one of the men who died from war injuries, did not die until April 1921.

If you watch Downton Abbey they were discussing where to put memorials well into 1924 if Julian Fellowes writes accurately. It was unveiled at the end of the last episode last Sunday. The windows at Folly chapel in Wheathampstead were bought for £120 by a lady who thought it an absolute tragedy that these men, who had fought so bravely, and of whom the windows said that 'their name liveth for evermore', were obviously not being remembered. She held on to them for some years, trying to find an appropriate home for them, and eventually gave them to St. Albans City Museum where they now reside. I went to find them the other Monday and found seeing them again deeply moving. A book has been written about all the fallen in the village. Rereading it, I was moved remembering I used to be given sweets by Cecily Odell and Mrs Gray. Both their husbands’ names are on the window. Both were sweet elderly ladies. I never knew the pain they carried with them into old age.
A husband that never returned. None of us can know what those men on that window, on memorials all over the place really went through.
It is only rediscovering their own personal stories that memories become alive. They were real people like us. The Imperial War Museum in London and the imperial War Museum in Salford are both worth visiting if you haven’t. Both are important places to keep the stories alive.

My Grandad, Harry Smith was from that little community. He went off and fought in the Battle of the Somme. He survived it… more about him later.        

We remember with gratitude. We remember real people.

Usually on Remembrance Sunday I am in Ore Village. This morning though I was in Rye which was a huge do. Never seen so many people with chains round their necks! Over 500 people were at St Marys of all ages, which was really great. I got to preach to my MP, a new experience. She told me afterwards, “you are so right!” The most moving bit of this morning apart from being told “you are so right” was watching over 40 wreaths being laid by all the communities in Rye, including one from the Kingdom of Norway. I turned to David Frost the Rector and said “do you always have Norway here?” He hadn’t a clue who the man was! Then we had children lay little crosses around the war memorial which one with a name of someone who had fallen in World War One. Last year after our act of remembrance in Ore I went to lunch at the Miller's Arms. The veterans in Ore Village invited all the clergy, the councillors and the police to join them after the service this morning. Sadly only a few police officers and me accepted the invitation.


The man who did the "when you go home" line was slightly worse for wear by the time I got to the pub. But it was important for him to raise several glasses to his comrades!

Let’s think about the two minute silence we took part in on Sunday and then on Tuesday. I had a meeting in London on Tuesday and was passing through Baker Street Underground station at 11am. The two minutes silence in a busy place was very moving. Most people stopped where they were. First observed on Tuesday 11th November 1919, the first minute to give thanks for those who survived, and the second minute to remember the fallen. The Times carried a message from King George V on 7th November where he requested, “for the brief space of two minutes a complete suspension of all our normal activities at 11am on Armistice Day. It was widely observed, the police stopped traffic, pedestrians stood still, and trains delayed departure or stopped (unless in tunnels) According to the central switchboard, no telephone calls were made in London during the silence. The Church Times had an article which said in no previous two minutes had “so many and so fervent prayers for the dead been uttered by men’s hearts and lips.
I like what the Times reported about it, “Thereafter, a new gentleness seemed abroad, people moved respectfully.”
Perhaps that story reminds us about moving on from remembering – being different.

We remember with thanksgiving. At the going down of the sun and in the morning, we will remember them.

In August 1914, those who rushed to recruiting offices were full of pride and patriotism – they saw a cause and were encouraged to fight to do God’s will and rid the world of evil.
To fight was a duty to sort out the wrong and it would all be over by Christmas. Churches were full of it being your Christian duty to go. Once shooting started in the summer of 1914, each of the major warring powers wound up embracing the language of holy war. This was more than a little ironic, given that World War I was effectively a civil war among Christians: With the exception of the Turkish Ottoman Empire, all of the leading warring nations shared a common religious ideology. Rather than wrestling with that unsettling irony, however, all sides rushed to condemn enemy nations as ungodly and to "proclaim fellow believers as de facto infidels."

Russians denounced Germany's Kaiser Wilhelm as the Antichrist. German writers equated Britain with the great whore of Babylon described in Revelation. English bishops informed their countrymen that they were God's "predestined instruments to save the Christian civilization of Europe."

The Bishop of London, Arthur Winnington-Ingram was a very vocal supporter of the war effort. He saw the war as a ‘great crusade to defend the weak against the strong’, and accepted uncritically stories of atrocities perpetrated by German troops.
In 1915 he toured the western front, in 1916 the Grand Fleet at Rosyth and Scapa Flow, and in 1918 Salonica. His skill at public speaking made him a successful recruiter of volunteers early in the war, and he took great delight in his position as chaplain to the London rifle brigade; later in the war he encouraged his own younger clergy to enlist as combatants.
Everyone that loves freedom and honour he said, are banded in a great crusade – we cannot deny it – to kill Germans; to kill them, not for the sake of killing, but to save the world; to kill them lest the civilisation of the world itself be killed.
Prime Minister, Herbert Asquith, called him “an intensely silly bishop.” And Methodists were equally controversial.  The President of the Primitive Methodist Conference Arthur Guttery called for young men to enlist declaring, “Our chapels are not the refuge of dissent, they are the citadels of liberty, and they train men who will break all tyranny in pieces.”

What was the mood of the nation as war was declared? Margot Asquith kept a diary while her husband, Herbert, was Prime Minister. It has just been published. It is worth reading

Even songs expressed the duty over the pain of separation, initially. Today songs are reissued after a period in a new context. There was a song written during the previous Boer War, which was very popular in 1914.
I have come to say goodbye, Dolly Gray,
It's no use to ask me why, Dolly Gray,
There's a murmur in the air, you can hear it everywhere,
It's the time to do and dare, Dolly Gray.

So if you hear the sound of feet, Dolly Gray,
Sounding through the village street, Dolly Gray,
It's the tramp of soldiers' true in their uniforms so blue,
I must say goodbye to you, Dolly Gray.

Goodbye Dolly I must leave you, though it breaks my heart to go,
Something tells me I am needed at the front to fight the foe,
See - the boys in blue are marching and I can no longer stay,
Hark - I hear the bugle calling, goodbye Dolly Gray.



If you want a good evening out tonight, Calvert Choir are doing about two hours worth of these songs, 7.30pm – including a guest soloist – well, you can put your hands over your ears for that bit! Please come if you would like to. I thought I was only going on the stage to do my little bit, I have, after choir practice last night, ended up being in the whole thing! But it was quite a spiritual exercise singing the lyrics of the songs of the time, imagining who was singing them 100 years ago.

Shortly before war was declared on 4 August 1914 the Labour MP Keir Hardie led an anti-war protest at Trafalgar Square attended by several thousands of people.
There was little interest for war in the weeks leading up to the declaration. Yet after war was declared Hardie’s anti-war stance was reviled and his speeches met with heckling as the country came together in support for the war effort.
Public attitude towards the war is perhaps best shown in statistics.  Only 16,000 people, known as conscientious objectors, refused to serve in the army during the war, four times less than in World War II.
Yet, over two and a half million men volunteered to fight between August 1914 and January 1916.
Conscientious objectors were often labelled as ‘conchies’ and the rest of the country had little time or sympathy for them. Those that stayed at home were viewed as ‘shirkers’ or cowards.
This lack of sympathy was perhaps understandable, especially from people who had just lost relatives at the front. Indeed many volunteers were motivated by the sense that if men were needed to win the war, why should they stay, while others fought for them?
Clement Attlee, future Labour leader, reflected in his memoirs that ‘it appeared wrong to me to let others make a sacrifice while I stood by.’

This sense that those who refused were harmful to the war effort increased negative feeling towards objectors. Up before a conscription tribunal in Oldham an objector was described as ‘a deliberate and rank blasphemer, a coward and a cad, and nothing but a shivering mass of unwholesome fat’. God had already been conscripted.

Soldiers killed fighting in the war would, in the words of one German pastor, be promoted from lower to higher service. Suffering, sacrifice, redemption were words much used in the early war years to justify it.

David Lloyd George, later to be Prime Minister on the resignation of Asquith, declared “the stern hand of fate has scourged us to an elevation where we can see the great everlasting things which matter for a nation – the great peaks we had forgotten of honour, duty, patriotism, and clad in glittering white, the great pinnacle of sacrifice pointing like a rugged finger to heaven.”
The mood soon changed as the war went on and on and stories of death and carnage and despair were heard. William Temple, then the Bishop of Manchester and later Archbishop of Canterbury, said “in a world gone pagan, what is a Christian to do? For the world has gone pagan. Members of the body of Christ are tearing one another, and his body is bleeding as it once bled on Calvary, but this time the wounds are dealt by his friends. It is as though Peter were driving home the nails, and John were piercing his side.”

Pope Pius X was so worried by the opening battles of the war it is thought the worry contributed to his death on August 20th 1914.
His successor, Benedict XV appealed throughout the conflict for peace. He condemned “the appalling spectacle of this war that has filled the heart with horror and bitterness.” War was to him “the bane of God’s wrath.”
One helpful book I discovered in my reading has been “The Great and Holy War” by Professor Philip Jenkins. He writes about the supernatural on the battle field. He writes about the “Comrade in White”, a figure who appeared in the worst of the battle to assist wounded and dying soldiers, in no mans land. Was the Comrade Christ or an angelic figure? Christ extending his aid to human fellow sufferers who shared his Calvary. The Comrade was understood to be a comfort to soldiers who dreaded being abandoned to a lonely death.

I lived in West Sussex before I came here in 2012, and served Steyning, a beautiful town below the South Downs. Above Steyning in Chanctonbury Ring, and there is a lane to walk to get to it which I walked a lot. There is a stone on the lane erected in the year 2000. The words on it are a poem written by a soldier in a trench half an hour before going over the top. Letters and thoughts of home were written to loved ones, the mind went back to calm and peace and better times. This poem was first printed by the Daily News in June 1916. The name of the poet was given as Philip Johnson. A young officer in the 5th Battalion, Yorkshire Regiment serving in France.

“I can't forget the lane that goes from Steyning to the Ring
In summer time, and on the downs how larks and linnets sing
High in the sun. The wind comes off the sea, and oh, the air!
I never knew till now that life in old days was so fair.
But now I know it in this filthy rat-infested ditch,
Where every shell must kill or spare, and God alone knows which.
And I am made a beast of prey, and this trench is my lair -
My God, I never knew till now that those days were so fair,
And we assault in half-an-hour, and it's a silly thing:
I can't forget the lane that goes from Steyning to the Ring.”
Perhaps the best person to turn to is the Rev Geoffrey Studdart Kennedy at the end of my reflections. He was a chaplain at the front, who become known as Woodbine Willie, for comforting the soldiers and handing out cigarettes to them.
I leave you with this story from his writing “The Word and his Work” – his views on the war changed dramatically as he witnessed the sights around him and he resolved to live differently.
In 1917, he saw a boy’s body in a wood and he thought “what is this to do you?”
He later wrote, “It seemed to me that the boy disappeared and in his place there lay the Christ upon his cross and cried “inasmuch as ye have done it unto the least of these my little ones, ye have done it unto me.”
From that moment on, I have never seen the world as anything but a crucifix. I see the cross set up in every slum, in every filthy overcrowded quarter, in every vulgar flaring street that speaks of luxury and waste of life.
 I see him staring up at me from the pages of newspaper that tells of a tortured, lost bewildered world.” Christ is with us even in the mess of war and in sacrifice.

One of his meditations on ‘God and Prayer’ begins by evoking a scene in the trenches: ‘I wish that chap would chuck his praying.  It turns me sick.  I’d much rather he swore like the sergeant.’  So is prayer useless?  Is God truly absent and powerless?  Studdert-Kennedy simply answers that prayer won’t save us from suffering any more than it saved Christ from his cross. 

But it is the only thing that makes us able to fight against evil in the only way that will actually transform the situation as Christ did – by selfless compassion, with all the risk that carries.

In all his work, in his sermons, his meditations, his astonishing poems, so many of them cast in the voice of the ordinary soldier in the trenches, full of protest and apparent blasphemy, Studdert-Kennedy argues against the bland problem-solving God. His commitment is to the God who is discovered in the heart of your own endurance and pain – not a solution, not a Father Christmas or a fairy godmother, but simply the one who holds your deepest self and makes it possible for you to look out on the world without loathing and despair.

In a lecture on Studdert-Kennedy, Rowan Williams says this: “Shocking and stark as it was, the way Studdert-Kennedy talked and wrote was pretty well the only religious response that was at all credible to those who were living through the daily nightmare.  And this may explain just a little how those who did come through were able to find some deep foundation for surviving the rest of the century with courage and a kind of faith.  In the heart of the terror and butchery, they had found that they were still there – they were real to themselves and each other; and if there was any God, he was what helped them be real in that darkness.  Maybe the simple fact of being real was what kept that generation faithful and more than faithful, creative and brave in a century of yet more darkness.”

I wonder what Grandad, Harry Smith, and his mates were thinking as they set off over 100 years ago, into the unknown.
I wonder what people have been thinking this last week as they have gathered around war memorials and have laid poppy wreaths.
As the last episode of the Passing Bells, which was on the BBC every night the other week said, “I wonder what they will make of this 100 years on.”

Let’s now bring in another Methodist into this reflection. Donald Soper was only 11 years old when the First World War began. His Sunday School immediately prepared and performed a patriotic pageant. Stirring martial hymns were regularly sung. At weekday school ‘I was very soon drafted into the cadet corps, issued with a uniform and a wooden rifle, and required to polish brass buttons as a preparation of drill every Wednesday’.

Donald Soper remembered his confidence in what he believed was ‘the unconquerable power’ of Britain, and how putting on his cadet uniform gave him a personal sense of that power. ‘No-one suggested to me even the possibility that the power of conducting mass violence did not necessarily confer moral approval on its practice.’

He first began to think critically about war and violence after he had trained as a bayonet-fighting instructor for his school’s cadet corps in 1918. At first he saw it as a splendid sort of ‘knightly prowess, involving skill, guts and spirit’.
But then he began to grow uneasy about what it meant in real terms. When he went to Cambridge University in 1921 to study history, he concentrated on one of his first loves: sport. At school he had excelled at boxing, cricket, football and swimming.
At Cambridge he concentrated on cricket - and many of his fellow players were young men who had fought in the recent war and carried its scars and disablements. ‘I began to hear at first hand the realities of war....


The martial exercise I had enjoyed became part of an obscenity of which I was ashamed.’ What’s more, he began to see that ‘War was not only a filthy business, it was an unintelligent one’.

 ‘Peace on earth,’ on the other hand, was entirely reasonable. It was a cricket match that brought home to Donald Soper just how important it was. A ball he bowled hit the batsman above the heart, and the young man died instantly. Donald Soper never forgot this tragedy. It was indeed, he said, ‘traumatic to be responsible for killing someone’ even unintentionally. For a while afterwards he suffered badly from depression and also experienced doubts about his religious beliefs.

And what of afterwards? What happened after the war?

For some there was great thanksgiving, like in Thankful Villages.

 A Thankful Village was said to be one which lost no men in the Great War as all those who had left to serve 'King and Country' came home again. I found one while on holiday in Rutland. In Teigh, twelve men went from the village, twelve returned. Out of 16,000 villages in England, 24 were named by the historian Arthur Mee as thankful villages.

Most communities in this country were blighted with loss and bereavement. For many returning soldiers, the world had changed and many faced unemployment and uncertainty. The class system had changed as well, and the role of women in society for the better.

My Grandad never talked about his experiences until much later. The majority of those who saw indescribable things came back with little support, indeed many of them were unemployed, society had changed in their absence. On his Diamond Wedding in 1979. Only then did I discover a bullet at the Somme went through Grandad and out the other side. He was perhaps lucky, but he lived with the pain of it all for the rest of his life.      

What about those who never saw their loved ones again? There emerged a great campaign to have some sort of permanent memorial. The tomb of the unknown warrior in Westminster Abbey became a symbol for people to remember – it could have been any of their loved ones I guess. The inscription is very beautiful:
BENEATH THIS STONE RESTS THE BODY
OF A BRITISH WARRIOR
UNKNOWN BY NAME OR RANK
BROUGHT FROM FRANCE TO LIE AMONG
THE MOST ILLUSTRIOUS OF THE LAND
AND BURIED HERE ON ARMISTICE DAY
11 NOV: 1920, IN THE PRESENCE OF
HIS MAJESTY KING GEORGE V
HIS MINISTERS OF STATE
THE CHIEFS OF HIS FORCES
AND A VAST CONCOURSE OF THE NATION
THUS ARE COMMEMORATED THE MANY
MULTITUDES WHO DURING THE GREAT
WAR OF 1914-1918 GAVE THE MOST THAT
MAN CAN GIVE LIFE ITSELF FOR GOD FOR KING AND COUNTRY FOR LOVED ONES HOME AND EMPIRE
FOR THE SACRED CAUSE OF JUSTICE AND
THE FREEDOM OF THE WORLD
THEY BURIED HIM AMONG THE KINGS BECAUSE HE
HAD DONE GOOD TOWARD GOD AND TOWARD
HIS HOUSE.
And then, of course, there were the men who returned and who feared the future. Where was God in it, through it, and after it? How does God sustain you after tragedy? I find these words from All Quiet on the Western Front very moving. Remember that was a German book, and it was banned in 1933. What is war for, and what happens after it? In that book a soldier, towards the coming of the Armistice worried that we might all forget one day. “If we go back now we shall be weary, broken down, burnt out, rootless and devoid of hope. We shall no longer be able to cope. No one will understand us – because in front of us there is a generation of men who did, it is true, share the years out here with us, but who already had a bed and a job and who are going back to their old positions, where they will forget all about the war, and behind us, a new generation is growing yup, one like we used to be, and that generation will be strangers to us and will push us aside. We are superfluous even to ourselves, we shall grow older, a few will adapt, others will make adjustments, and many of us will not know what to do – the years will trickle away and eventually we shall perish.”

At the going down of the sun and in the morning, we shall remember them.

And what of us 100 years on?

I was moved by the editorial in the Church Times of 7 November. “The numbers of dead and injured were so vast, the impact on whole nations so great. In 1915, the nation did not mourn the dead of the Battle of Waterloo, 100 years earlier. Total casualties suffered by both sides in 1815 were 47,000. The British alone lost 60,000 in one day on the Somme. The installation at the Tower of London works because it reminds spectators of the great cost in lives. Acts of remembrance help to ensure that disregard for human life on such a scale will never recur.”
Perhaps 100 years on we need to finish with some Siegfried Sassoon. This is a poem called “Have you forgotten yet?” Sassoon was an officer whose views on war changed as the thing went on.
He sent a letter to his commanding officer entitled Finished with the War: A Soldier’s Declaration. Forwarded to the press and read out in the House of Commons by a sympathetic member of parliament, the letter was seen by some as treasonous "I am making this statement as an act of wilful defiance of military authority" or at best as condemning the war government's motives "I believe that the war upon which I entered as a war of defence and liberation has now become a war of aggression and conquest”
Rather than court-martial Sassoon, the Under-Secretary of State for War, Ian Macpherson, decided that he was unfit for service and had him sent to Craiglockhart War Hospital near Edinburgh, where he was officially treated for shell shock.

Have you forgotten yet?
For the world's events have rumbled on since those gagged days,
Like traffic checked while at the crossing of city-ways:
And the haunted gap in your mind has filled with thoughts that flow
Like clouds in the lit heaven of life; and you're a man reprieved to go,
Taking your peaceful share of Time, with joy to spare.
But the past is just the same--and War's a bloody game...
Have you forgotten yet?...
Look down, and swear by the slain of the War that you'll never forget.
Do you remember the dark months you held the sector at Mametz--
The nights you watched and wired and dug and piled sandbags on parapets?
Do you remember the rats; and the stench
Of corpses rotting in front of the front-line trench--
And dawn coming, dirty-white, and chill with a hopeless rain?
Do you ever stop and ask, 'Is it all going to happen again?'
Do you remember that hour of din before the attack--
And the anger, the blind compassion that seized and shook you then
As you peered at the doomed and haggard faces of your men?
Do you remember the stretcher-cases lurching back
With dying eyes and lolling heads--those ashen-grey
Masks of the lads who once were keen and kind and gay?
Have you forgotten yet?...
Look up, and swear by the green of the spring that you'll never forget.

Almighty Father, whose will is to restore all things in your beloved Son, the King of all: govern the hearts and minds of those in authority, and bring the families of the nations, divided and torn apart by the ravages of sin, to be subject to his just and gentle rule; who is alive and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever.  Amen. 

God, our refuge and strength, bring near the day when wars shall cease and poverty and pain shall end, that the earth may know the peace of heaven through Jesus Christ our lord.  Amen. Common Worship Shorter Collect.


Eternal God, in whose perfect realm no sword is drawn but the sword of justice, and no strength known but the strength of love: guide and inspire all who seek your kingdom, that peoples and nations may find their security in the love which casts out fear; through Jesus Christ our Saviour. Amen.